Hi, m-i-l had bowel cancer surgery in November and it all went a bit pear shaped and she spent 10 days in ITU with breathing problems & infections. She's on a re-hab ward now but struggling to eat, struggling with stoma as she's virtually blind so can't see to empty it, wound & stoma are very close and walking is very hard. She's also very weepy and tired and a lot more down than she's letting on to staff. Yesterday she had a fall too which has really upset her more. Today we have a meeting with physio and social services about what support she will need when she goes home, they suggested mid-January initially but not sure atm. F-i-l had just finished radiotherapy for prostate cancer & has stents and reduced lung capacity after lung cancer too so he isn't in any state to be caring for her. Just wondered what kind of questions we need to ask about support for both of them moving forward, am worried that they will proudly try to muddle through when they actually need a significant amount of support.