Bowel cancer treatment and side effects


devastating news

Good evening all

Tim my beautiful husband and soul mate died suddenly and unexpectedly on 7/1/19 age 40. His cancer was stage 2. The surgery went well and he recovered well (complex Haartmans and colostomy). He started mop up chemo (only as a precaution) on 5/1/19 had a sudden cardiac arrest sat next to me at home on 6/1/19 and never woke up but was declared dead at the JR. The post mortem showed the capecitabine caused his death. Inquest starts in July

My heart is shattered i am broken without him


I'm so sorry to hear this tragic news. Thinking of you as you try to navigate through this awful time :x::x::x::x:


Dear @HH , I am sooo shocked & saddened to read your post; what a tragedy for Tim & his beautiful, loving family. I am soooo v sorry for your loss - devastating indeed.
I am thinking of you & sending all my love, deepest sympathies & healing vibes. I really hope & pray you’re getting all the help & support you need at this agonising time 💗:x::x::x:


Oh @HH I am so very sorry to read this:( xx huge hugs to you.

Bear G

My condolences @HH
Thinking of you and your family.


Thinking of you and the rest of your family @HH. My deepest sympathies. :x::x:


I am new to the forum - but my deepest sympathies at this difficult time :x::x:


Deepest sympathy, sending positive thoughts to you and your family.


So sorry to hear this @HH. My condolences to you and your family :x::x:


I am so sorry to see this 😢 @HH
Sending you lots of love.


Dear @HH very sorry to hear the tragic news. I am very sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family. :x::x::x:

Richard Staff (Support and Information)

Hello @HH I'm so sorry to hear your terrible news.

I just wanted to pass on my best wishes from everyone here at Bowel Cancer UK. You're very much in our thoughts and please let me know if there is anything we can do for you.

Take care, Richard

Lady B

Absolutely heart breaking news @HH, thinking of you :x::x:


Thank you all for your words I will never be the same again I am incomplete now but have to go on for our daughters I never thought I would be a widow at 37 and planning my husbands funeral :x:


Soooo v tragic; can’t begin to imagine how u must be feeling/coping. Sincerely hope I hv lots of practical help & support.
Know that we are all with u in spirit :x::x::x:


I'm so so sorry to read this @HH , it just really brings home how very cruel and unfair this awful disease is. How unfair he was post op and had got so far in his journey, there's nothing I can say as your news is so heartbreaking. I'm sending all my love to you and your children. Hugs :x::x::x:


I'm so very, deeply sorry to read of this, Helen @HH .
My deepest condolences to you all.


I am so sorry @HH ! Your news is unbearable to read and I send condolences and love to you and your family. Sarah :x::x:


This is truly awful , my deepest condolences :x::x:


So very sorry Helen, @HH to read your news about your husband Tim and such a young age with only stage 2 his survival rate should have been good. The tragedy that he died due to an adverse effect of capecitabine is very sobering, and highlight that chemotherapy treatment is a high risk therapeutic intervention.

My deepest sympathy :x::x::x:


Oh my goodness. I’m on the forum or Facebook very rarely now and just read this. I’m so very sorry. There is nothing helpful I can say. Hoping you find strength and support to get you through :x::x::x: