My father's pelvic exenteration today

Hi @Gary12345, I hope your dad is doing well after his operation. I bet it was a very stressful day for you and all the family. The key thing is your dad came through a very extensive operation and they got everything out they could see. I don't know a huge amount about this type of operation or the recovery but others have mentioned it in the past so you may see some useful info if you type it into the search bar.

I had quite similar news recently when my Mum had an 8 hour bowel op to then be told that they're not confident they got it all out and microscopic cells are prob still there. It was undoubtedly difficult news to receive so I know how you're feeling.

And who knows what will be possible in 3-5 years time with new treatments etc that aren't possible today. I think we'll see some big breakthroughs in cancer research over the next few years with modern technology and science.

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Hi @Gary12345, I hope your dad is doing well after his operation. I bet it was a very stressful day for you and all the family. The key thing is your dad came through a very extensive operation and they got everything out they could see. I don't know a huge amount about this type of operation or the recovery but others have mentioned it in the past so you may see some useful info if you type it into the search bar.

I had quite similar news recently when my Mum had an 8 hour bowel op to then be told that they're not confident they got it all out and microscopic cells are prob still there. It was undoubtedly difficult news to receive so I know how you're feeling.

And who knows what will be possible in 3-5 years time with new treatments etc that aren't possible today. I think we'll see some big breakthroughs in cancer research over the next few years with modern technology and science.

@ijp30 Thanks I hope your mams doing good after her surgery 👍 Yeah its horrible to hear bad news especially after hoping your heart away for the best possible outcomes . Yeah its certainly stressfull waiting on surgeryday . But I'm very grateful he had it done despite cells left behind.... Just have to try be positive and focus on recovery .....And i hope we can have a few years of quality of life .

I'm so glad to hear your dad is out of surgery and now recovering @Gary12345. 16 hours is very long time and I'm sure it must have continued late into the evening too!! All very stressful for you waiting for news. I wonder if the best way forward now is to merely focus on his recovery a day at a time which will be challenging enough in itself and not to think too far ahead at this stage?

Sending you youre dad lots of love and all my very best wishes,

Karen 🌸🌻💐🌼🌷

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I'm so glad to hear your dad is out of surgery and now recovering @Gary12345. 16 hours is very long time and I'm sure it must have continued late into the evening too!! All very stressful for you waiting for news. I wonder if the best way forward now is to merely focus on his recovery a day at a time which will be challenging enough in itself and not to think too far ahead at this stage?

Sending you youre dad lots of love and all my very best wishes,

Karen 🌸🌻💐🌼🌷

@Baxter2 Hey Karen 👋 ......Ya it was a very 16 anxious hours tbh .... But yeah he definitely will be taking a day at a time and hopefully a good recovery ...will be a wait and see type of thing then 🙏... And as for other treatments i don't think theirs going to be any type of mop up chemo happening because of the kras mutant.......But tbh I'm just glad the surgey went well and they done their very best ......Thanks tho Karen 😊 lots of love and good wishes to you too ❤🧡💛

Who knows what's possible once your dad recovers @Gary12345? Look after yourself too as it can all take its toll both physically and mentally on both patient and relative.

Lots of love,

Karen 💐🌻🌺🌸🌼

Thanks Karen I will of course and best wishes to you as well 😊 ❤💛💚💙💜

@Gary12345 i had this operation nov 2020. It is a very big surgery ...mine ended with complications so surgery was 22hrs but id do it again in a whim. Recovery is very very hard but u have the right attitude one day at a time and u will have blips along the way but hes come this far well done to him as i know how he must be feeling. And biggest magic mesicine is your support to him. I always say the carer has as bad a time mentally as you so want to make them better and worry. Keep smiling youll get there and dont count years make the years count!!! ❤

@Tinkletot I'm glad you're doing well and had a good recovery 😃.Its seems a rare operation and not many people still active on this who've had it ....How long was it b4 you were mobile?, Thanks for Very true 👍

@Gary12345 ur welcome yes very hard to find a lot of info. Unfortunately i had a serious complication during op what they call stacking syndrome and was not connected to cancer as such so lost use of my leg and have had to learn to walk again im nearly there 🤞. But if hadnt had that i think prob 10 weeks b4 more norm but it just depends on patient. Its hard and positive attitude is v helpful. Sorry not much help but feel free to message me anytime at all. Hope all goes swiftly

Thanks @Tinkletot will do and all the best with your recovery 👍